Advice for my 14 year old self - Part 3

As I was writing this list there was a small part of me thinking....gawd I sound so arrogant.  Your comments have been inspiring and overwhelming! 

If you would like the complete list, please email me and I will send it to you when I have finished the series.

Thank you to everyone who has forwarded my posts - I am deeply touched you think my little thoughts are worthy of being read twice.

Now, on with part 3! 


31. Finish everything you want to do before the babies come

32. Get in front of the camera more often – even if it means losing 20lbs and wearing makeup more often

33. Read Men Are From Mars, Women are from Venus. Learn how to relate to men as men and don’t confuse them with your girlfriends

34. Take advice about men from men.  Take advice about fashion from women willing to let you know you have something in your teeth – these women will tell you if something makes your a$$ look fat

35. Be the kind of spouse you want even if your spouse isn’t. Lead by example

36. Don’t be a hypocrite

37. Forget about being yourself. Be who you want to be (Thank you Julia Sugarbaker)

38. Eat veggies every day – antioxidants keep your skin looking young

39. Moisturize

40. Laugh lines are more attractive than Botox – so go ahead and laugh a lot

41. Consider the source – when reading about medical studies, find out who funded them

42. Go. You might meet someone

43. Read ‘The Rules’.  Before you think it is old fashioned, keep in mind...men have not evolved very much in the last few thousand years.

44. Carry a cotton handkerchief (Guys, carry two, one for you, one for her)

45. Give.  Time, money, energy, love, affection....just give


Have a fabulous day!